Naturenever apologizesfor changing

neither do I

We were taught that changing means losing something.

That whoever changes their mind is inconsistent, whoever changes path is indecisive, whoever changes body had better fix it. So we cling. To an idea that no longer looks like us, to a body that is asking to change, to a season of life that is already over.

But a tree doesn't hold on to its autumn leaves.

It lets them go, and it is no less a tree for it. Changing is neither inconsistency nor indecision: it is staying the same person, in another shape. Sometimes it can be scary, but the good news is that you never have to go through all of it alone.

I can help you stay inside change:
of ideas, of the body, of the seasons of life.

Nice to meet you,

I am Many.

For years I felt inconsistent at every change I made, especially at work. Whenever someone asked me what I did for a living, I took a few seconds, the time to choose which version of me to present that day. My CV is very long, with more certifications than pages and jobs that, read one after the other, look like they belong to four different people. I thought it was a flaw to correct, an excess of curiosity to keep in check. Then I discovered that there is a word for people like me: multipotentialite.

I am a Multi­potentialite.

A multipotentialite is someone with many interests and many skills, who finds their energy precisely in moving from one to the other and letting them talk to each other. The word was made famous by Emilie Wapnick, who explained that some people are made to have many callings instead of just one. Put even more simply, when asked "what do you want to be when you grow up?" I always wanted to answer with a bulleted list, without having to feel wrong or strange.

It took me years to understand it: calling yourself a multipotentialite isn't showing off, nor swearing you can do everything. Quite the opposite. It is confessing that you fall in love often, and with many things, and that you have learned to make them live together without going neurotic. Almost always.

How does it really feel?

You feel out of place every time you have to fill in the "occupation" field, and guilty whenever a new passion catches your eye. You open different websites and social profiles for each part of yourself, hoping that keeping them apart will make them more credible. And some parts you hide altogether, afraid they might compromise the whole.

The truth, or rather my truth, is that my different parts hold each other up and work better when they are all in the same room.

The thread that ties it all together is just one but it is not always straight

We are used to thinking of the red thread as a line, a straight one, joining the numbered dots until the picture appears, et voilà, everything finally makes sense! But my thread isn't straight: it zigzags, it winds, it crosses, it stars, it knots... Sometimes it skips, goes back, draws circles that never seem to close. And then it snaps, yes, it still happens to me.My secret is not getting attached to its direction.I built this jungle-home to hold together the things I do in almost all my guises: as a strategist for organizations, as a somatic therapist in helping relationships and as a death doula on the last stretch of the road. Here you will find the result of the evolutions I have gone through without apologizing or asking anyone's permission.

“So, in short, what do you do? What is your field?” A frequent question that no longer bothers meI accompany change in systems, in the body and in the important stages of life.

When a system of ideas changes For organizations I help people find the right ways to say what they believe in. I work on strategy and communication: today I mostly help non-profit organizations and people who work in personal care. Let's find the right path → When a family changes For parents and children I support parents and children when the family changes: becoming parents, watching children grow, going through a separation, finding your place again. And I bring yoga to growing children, at school and in their homes. yogasitter.it → When the physical and emotional body changes For the body and the emotions I care for changing bodies (menopause, illness, transition) with my training in Chinese medicine, yoga and psychosomatic mindfulness: to listen to them as they transform, instead of fighting them. corpoemotivo.com → When perspective changes For end of life and grief I am an INELDA-trained death doula: I accompany those who are leaving and those who stay, in the passages that seem insurmountable. I explain the changes in the body to those at the bedside, and I help put wishes and practical matters in order, so that leaving this life can be more serene. doulafinevita.com →

Consulting for multipotentialites

Many souls,
one profession:
yours.

If you have ten interests and no box that holds them, you can still keep them all. Together we find the thread that ties them and turn it into a job, an offer and a story that are entirely you.

When asked "what do you do?", would you rather answer with a list?

Do you have more websites, Instagram profiles and open projects that speak about you?

Do you feel guilty every time you fall for something new?

Do you feel stuck in a loop, not knowing how to ground all the versions of you?

if this sounds like you,you are home,and I can help.

A path in three steps

  1. The mapWe line up all your souls, without being ashamed of any of them.
  2. The threadWe find what holds them together: the need you have always answered.
  3. The shapeWe turn them into a job, an offer, or simply a new way of introducing yourself.
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if you too have many souls,

contact me, I would love to meet them all.